Saturday, January 30, 2010

Bloody Accident

Our friday was good until it turned bloody and huge arguments. X-Husband came home early from work because he called some maintenance people to fix the broken pipes or tube which was the cause of frozen pipelines. Everything was fine and all fixed, the water start running again So, our afternoon was fine, I was watching the kids because he was napping, and when he woke up he went outside to smoke. When he was done smoking he came in and I asked him to watch the kids coz I had to wash the dishes. While I was doing the dishes I heard a panic voice from him and Jake was crying. When I turned around Jake was covered with blood. I didn't know what happened but I think Jake threw a fit while playing with the legos and he banged his head at the floor with the edge of the lego in it. We panic and tried to stop the blood, and while he was getting ready to rush jake to the hospital the blood stopped so he decided not to take jake to the hospital then because the children hospital here takes forever before they have someone to take care of the patient. Since we didn't have any first aid stuff we used bad aid to cover the cut and he went to the store to buy the things. When he came home I was exhausted, I wanted to take a break but he was busy going out and smoke. I was pissed and told hem that non of this would have happened if he watched Jake instead of playing in the computer. He freaked out and started yelling at me. So the bloody accident turned into huge, major fight.
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9 comments:

Lulu said...

the bloody accident bow! i am glad jake is okay .... kids will always be kids... there will be more accidents to happen... okay lang basta minor accidents lang

Mel Alarilla said...

Nakakalungkot naman ang nangyari sa inyo. Naaksidente na nga si Jake tapos nagaway pa kayong dalawa ni mister. This should not happen in a loving and caring household. First of all, try to instruct Jake to be more careful while playing. Pangalawang aksidente na nya yan. Hindi ba nagkasugat din siya nuon sa isang soft drink tin can? Mangyayari sa lahat nang bahay ang mga small accidents, dapat prepared tayo sa ganito emotionally. Ang magsisihan kayong magasawa tuwing me masamang mangyayari sa inyong bahay speaks so much of the disharmony of your relationship. Ikaw na ang maging mapagbigay at mapangunawa dahil hindi mo naman maaasahan sa mister mo ang ganyan. And don't nag him. Baka napi piss off siya sa pag nag mo, lalo ka niyang sasadyain. Nandiyan na iyan. Magasawa na kayo. The best you can do is make your marriage work for the sake of the kids. Kaya nga pinapayuhan kitang maging malapit sa Diyos dahil yung me mga katangiang galing sa Diyos lamang ang kayang maging selfless at maging maunawain at pasensiyosa sa lahat nang sandali. Unahin mo muna ang sarili mong magbago sa pamamagitan nang pagibig nang Diyos sa iyo. At kapag nabago ka na ay maipapanalangin mo ang husband mo at makapagbibigay ka nang magandang ehemplo sa kanya. You can't pray that your husband be changed by God if you yourself also need changes in your life. I will pray for you Shy na makita mo ang lahat nang ito. I wish I could do more for you my friend. Thanks for the post. God bless you all always.

Juliet said...

Hi she! kalma lang ingon ana gyud na naa gyud accident sometimes. maayo kay ok na si jake. Hope nagtingog namo sa imong bana karon ug wala nay away.

ruby said...

ay nku pasaway pud na emo bana oi, murag akoa pud.. dah mang lupad lagi remote ako sapoton sa iya... kapoy bya mag bantay bata, mao pirme init ulo.

Cecile said...

Tsang, am so sorry to hear what happened :-(; ganyan talaga, small accident happened sa atoang anak, at mag panic ta ana kay blood man gud. Ako sad mopanic bisan small cut lang! Maayo na lang akong bana kay dili na motingog pag ako na pssed off. Unta okay na mo ni Jose; mao man usahay atong bana, patience na lang gud for the sake of our kids...ingat ug sana okay na sad si Jake, hugs to you tsang muahhhh

Mommy Liz said...

First of, I am so glad that Jake is fine. Accidents happen talaga. I hope hindi naman naging X si hubby, hehehe. Argument is normal, just don't let it get worst..Remember all the things that we read from Couple's Corner. Wag kalimutan..need na mag usap at magbati, di ba?

♥Willa♥ said...

Wawa naman Jakey, hopefully wala ng sugat and I'm sure he's as energetic as always.
Ganyan talaga,kaya nga ako tinatak ko na sa isip ko na wala talagang ibang mapapagkatiwalaan sa mga anak ko kundi ako lang din. :D

chubskulit said...

Hi bakla, sorry to hear about what happened. Again my apology na ngayon ko lang nalaman ang mga ito. I hope Jake and Justin are okay now.. Ngayon lang gumanda connection ko.. 12:30 na oh naku, kaninang nasa mood ako magbloghop walang connection grrrr.

Lindz said...

it could happen sometimes in the heat of the moment... kakapagod naman kasi maging nanay... hope the kids are okey..

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